25+ Activities to Improve Pencil Grip

25+ Activities to Improve Pencil Grip

“Help! How can I help my child hold a pencil?”

This can be one of the trickiest habits to correct.


Because children do not always want to be helped with pencil grip.

Go figure. Here we are, teaching them to be independent thinkers, and then swooping in to correct everything.

My three-year-old is full of independence and absolutely does not want mom to rearrange his marker. GASP! Doesn’t he know I have a degree in education?!

So what do I do? I find subtle ways to have him practice in order to develop his pencil grip. These activities suggest he rearrange his grip to create lines and movements in order to complete the task.

And with the help of Playing with Chanel, you can do this as well.

Here’s How.

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Let’s talk with an expert on pencil grip:

Priscila from Playing with Chanel is a pediatric Occupational Therapist in California. She is my ultimate go to for topics like pencil grip, scissor skills and sensory processing.

Priscila breaks down pencil the different ages with actionable tips on how to help.

Now, just like anything in life, correct pencil grip will take practice.


This is my favorite saying right now. Practice, dedication and one on one instruction WILL pay off. We can help incorrect pencil grip over time.

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Developing Pencil Grip - One Year of Age:

From 1-1.5 years you will see your toddler holding a crayon with fisted hands, slightly flexed and the arm moving as one unit.

Guess what? It is called a palmar grasp and it is totally developmental! 

  • This is the time to develop their palmar arches without focusing too much on writing and grasp.

  • Palmar arches allow for the cupping action of the hand to hold objects (like a pencil). So instead of the pencil, focus on manipulatives and toys that involve squeezing, pinching, putting small objects together and pulling them apart. 

  • But remember exposure is also important! So expose them to crayons and let them make marks and scribble for fun!  

pencil grip for preschoolers

Activities and Ideas for Development of Palmar Arches:

SQUEEZE: Sweet and Tasty Sensory Bin - Days with Grey

PINCH: Drop Box Taby Activity - Busy Toddler

PUT TOGETHER, PULL APART: Match it Up - Playing with Chanel

PUT TOGETHER, PULL APART: Animal Tape Rescue - Busy Toddler

Developing Pencil Grip - Two to Three Years of Age:

From 2-3 years you will see your toddler holding the pencil more with their fingers.

As their hands get stronger and more coordinated, and their wrist will also straighten out. 

  • This is the time to develop their thumb, index and middle finger to work together.

  • Manipulatives that focus on this are: clothespins, tweezers, tongs, eye-droppers, spray bottles, stamps

Strategies for Proper Grasp:

  • Break crayons into small pieces (as it requires them to use the 3 fingers),

  • Use small pieces of chalk

  • Use small and fat crayons or markers

  • Golf pencils (bc it is light and smaller)

  • Draw on a slant or vertical walls! WHY? Their wrist go into slight extension, which is the optimal position when using a pencil.

Prewriting Benchmark Skills: (these are lines your 2-3 year-old can write)

  • Imitate vertical

  • Horizontal

  • Circular strokes

  • Imitate a cross. 

pencil grip for preschoolers

Pencil Grip Activities and Ideas for 2-3 Year Old Pencil Grip:

FINGER CONTROL: Finger Isolation Finger Painting - Playing with Chanel

FINGER CONTROL: Bring the Bears Home - Days with Grey

TWEEZERS: Straw Tweezers - Playing with Chanel

TONGS: Run and Sort - Days with Grey

EYE DROPPERS: Lemon Sensory Bin - Days with Grey

SPRAY BOTTLES: Splash the Alphabet - Days with Grey

SQUIRT BOTTLES: Paint the Ice - Days with Grey

STAMPING: Golf Tees + Hammer - Playing with Chanel

Developing Pencil Grip - Three and a half years+ - Tripod Grasp


You want to see that your preschooler will hold the pencil with tips of the thumb, index, and middle finger.

This is called a tripod grasp.

Wrist will be slightly extended. 

Now is the time to sit and practice one on one WITH your preschooler. Spending 5 minutes on the set-up, and 7 minutes working WITH your child will have a powerful payoff.

Set aside the same time every day to practice together.

This is not a time to battle over how to hold the pencil. It is a time to take a step back and look at the activity together with a much slower pace.

  • This is the time to refine their skills!

  • If your preschooler is not holding their pencil with a tripod grasp, then it may be because they got in a habit of holding the pencil the wrong way, weak hand strength, and perhaps not enough exposure. 

  • Focus on above strategies for proper grasp and make writing fun!

  • Incorporate mazes, dot to dot, tracing, drawing and games instead of worksheets and writing letters. - I have you covered with 10+ ideas below.

  • Remember, hand dominance fully develops at around age 4-5 years so make sure they get the opportunity to strengthen both sides of their hands. 

MANY of our Breakfast Invitations are linked to pencil grip. They force your preschooler to hold the marker steady in a fun, low key way.

My plan? To take one of these activities a day and intentionally work with my three-year-old.

pencil grip for preschoolers

Activities for Pencil Grip for Three Years and Older:

MONSTER DOT TO DOT - Days with Grey

MAZES: Giant Dot to Dot - Days with Grey

TWEEZERS: Pom Pom Pick Up - Playing with Chanel

DOT TO DOT: Apple Dot to Dot - Days with Grey

PLACEMENT: Dot Sticker Names - Playing with Chanel

PLACEMENT: Rainbow Bears - Days with Grey

TRACING: Highlighter Trace - Days with Grey

DRAWING: Rainbow Movement - Playing with Chanel

GRIP: Shape Match - Days with Grey

GRASP: Button Push - Days with Grey

GRASP: Paint the Sticks - Days with Grey

SCISSOR PRACTICE: Cut the Shapes - Days with Grey

HAND CONTROL: Cardboard Nail Painting - Playing with Chanel

SQUIRTING: Neon Squirt - Days with Grey

SCISSORS - Spaghetti Scissor Cut - Days with Grey

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Remember, to fix something, you have to stick with it. But, WE CAN DO HARD THINGS, RIGHT? Let’s help our preschooler’s grip together. Thank you, Playing with Chanel!

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